Tip 1: Creating a bucket list
Formulating a bucket list when facing loss can provide a sense of hope. A challenging diagnosis doesn’t mean time is limited or that you can’t create cherished memories with your dog. When writing a bucket list, think about…
- Your pet’s favourite people, foods, and places.
- What makes your dog unique?
Answering these questions will help you form the basis of your list. Ideas could include organising a photo shoot, enjoying a day at the beach, or indulging in dog-friendly treats. Each of these activities can lead to unforgettable moments. For additional guidance on Supporting Yourself and Your Pet Through Difficult Times, click here for help with writing a bucket list for your pet.
Tip 2: Stay realistic about their current condition
Our veterinary hospice team assists carers with their understanding of how a life-limiting illness affects their pet. For example, even with medication, your dog may experience discomfort, such as with bone cancer, which can diminish their enjoyment of activities like road trips. Nausea from kidney disease can reduce their appetite and pleasure in eating.
You can consult your vet for advice on travel arrangements and suitable food options.
Tip 3: When you need support, ask for it
Losing a beloved pet can be an incredibly emotional and isolating experience, but leaning on friends and family for support can make a world of difference. Sharing your feelings with those who understand your bond with your pet can provide comfort and validation during this difficult time. Whether it’s talking about cherished memories, expressing your grief, or simply being in the presence of loved ones, their support can help you process your emotions and remind you that you’re not alone. Don’t hesitate to reach out—often, those closest to you want to help but may not know how, so letting them in can be healing for everyone involved.
Equally important is seeking medical advice when your pet is struggling. Pets can’t communicate their pain or discomfort the way humans can, so it’s vital to rely on the expertise of a veterinarian to assess their condition and provide the best possible care. Early intervention can improve your pet’s quality of life and potentially ease their suffering, whether they’re dealing with an illness, injury, or age-related issues. By consulting a professional, you’re ensuring that your pet gets the attention and care they deserve, which can also give you peace of mind while Supporting Yourself and Your Pet Through Difficult Times.Click here for help with writing a bucket list for your pet.
